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Executive Gay & Lesbian Matchmaking Firm

Bespoke Matchmaking works exclusively with exceptional gay men and lesbians who are serious about meeting the right person and who are ready to begin a loving relationship.

Our firm brings traditional matchmaking into the 21st century, combining a personalized approach with an exclusive network of eligible gay and  lesbian singles.

We introduce you to exceptional men and women who share your aspirations, lifestyle, objectives and intellectual pursuits without wasting your time in bars or online. We represent the most discerning gay men and lesbians who are emotionally available, financially secure and who strive for excellence.

Our process is highly customized to our members’ individual needs with personal interaction at each step of the way. Our seasoned matchmakers walk you through the process of self-discovery while diligently searching for your perfect partner.

We are discreet, confidential, and we understand and respect our client’s privacy. We offer a comfortable and warm environment while making it easy for our clients to share their past experiences.

In today’s busy society, romantic relationships are too often neglected in favour of other successes. We help our members invest in their own well-being and put the focus back into the things that matter most, without taking away from their busy lives.

If you are single, selective and serious about finding love, we would love to meet with you. Contact us by calling 1-888-422-6464 to schedule a complimentary consultation with our executive matchmaker.

Our Process

We start by getting to know you. You do the talking, we’ll do the listening.
Confidential Interview

Our process begins with a complimentary in-depth interview with our executive matchmaker who will get to know more about who you are and what you are looking for in a partner.


Following the interview you will be assigned your own professional matchmaker who will contact you with your first introduction.


Once you and your match have had the opportunity to meet, your matchmaker will be patiently awaiting your feedback.

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  • I have always been the type of woman who believed in fate and if it was meant to be it would happen. After my 35th birthday and some insane bar hopping I decided I was getting too old for this and it was time to take matters into my own hands. After all if I wanted something to happen it was time to make it happen…. Diane
  • Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match…who ever thought I would turn to an Executive Matchmaker for help. The last blind date I went on sitting in a restaurant waiting over 45 minutes for him to stand me up I knew it was time to do something different. I did my research and sure enough Bespoke was the route I knew I wanted to take... Kevin
  • I want to thank you and your dedicated team for finding me my partner. We have been together for 8 months and she completes me in every way. My sincere thanks, Julie
  • I am a 48-year old executive who had done my share of dating and felt I knew all the eligible men available. I used the internet and was surprised at what I met and it was not for me. I was not a bar guy and certainly was not looking for a casual relationship. I chose to join Bespoke and am very happy to say 14 months later I am happily engaged to my partner. I want to thank all of you from the bottom of my heart! Best, Jim
  • Yes; I am a hopeless romantic but: no I did not expect this to happen. It was as if we had known each other for years. The conversation flowed easily and he even laughed at my jokes. Six months later he is still laughing at my jokes and we have fallen head over heels in love. I want to thank your entire team, you were truly amazing and without your help Greg and I would have never met. Warren
  • The interview with the consultant was wonderful. I don’t think I have ever opened up quite so easily. It was in a comfortable atmosphere and I found myself opening up with ease. I have just become a new client of Bespoke and I am quite excited about the process. Let’s see where it goes. Eliot

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Ask The Expert


Dear Carol, I am a beautiful, intelligent woman who has a great career, an amazing home and really I am blessed with a wonderful life. The only thing that holds me back is I suffer from being “shy”. When a woman I am attracted to makes eye contact I tend to look away or walk in the other direction when I am being approached. Every time I am somewhere that I see someone I am attracted to I never seem to be able to get up the courage to approach her. Do you have any tips or pointers you can suggest to help me get over this? Sincerely, Shy


Dear Shy,

Understanding that you are shy and wanting to work on it is the first step in gaining the confidence to get past this. As you mentioned you are a beautiful, woman who is confident and comfortable in every other aspect of your life and just struggles with getting past the anxiety of that first date.  When you decide to approach someone do it with the same ease and confidence you would approach a potential business acquaintance.  When you approach someone don’t look at it as they are going to evaluate you to see if you measure up but; look at it as you are evaluating them to see if they measure up to your requirements.


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