November 7, 2014

November 2014 – posted on

Dear Carol, I have spent 15 years of my life with a woman I though was my soul mate. We started as best friends and then became lovers and shortly after business partners. We share a home and a vacation…

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November 7, 2014

Red Flags That Gay Men Should NOT Ignore On A First Date

There is nothing more important than making a good impression on that very first date. The anticipation and excitement mixed in with being just a slight bit nervous can sometimes cause over thinking. What should I wear? Where should we…

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October 28, 2014

Ask the Expert Relationship Advice Column – Deciding whether to stay in or to end a relationship

Our monthly Ask the Expert Relationship Advice Column can be seen published at Carol Sugar-Burke is an Executive Matchmaker for NY’s premier gay and lesbian matchmaking service Bespoke Matchmaking. Dear Carol, I have spent 15 years of my life…

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September 7, 2014

September 2014 – posted on

Dear Carol, I am shocked and bewildered on how few people I meet that actually have their own personality, opinions and convictions. The last woman I dated was attractive and seemed genuinely interested in me and very agreeable. It started…

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June 7, 2014

June 2014 – posted on

Dear Carol, As we get closer to World Pride I realize another year has passed and I have had a few short term relationships but: I am still single. I always end up with women that I know are not…

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May 7, 2014

May 2014 – posted on

Dear Carol, I was at a house party over two months ago and met a wonderful woman that I spent practically the whole evening with. The initial attraction was unbelievable and I felt it was reciprocated when at the end…

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April 7, 2014

April 2014 – posted on

Dear Carol, I have been dating someone I met on line who lives in a different city. We have begun a long distance relationship and over the last 6 months I have gone to visit her four times and she…

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