I have always been the type of woman who believed in fate and if it was meant to be it would happen. After my 35th birthday and some insane bar hopping I decided I was getting too old for this and it was time to take matters into my own hands. After all if I wanted something to happen it was time to make it happen. Don’t get me wrong I had many relationships but I really was not meeting someone I could imagine being with on a long term basis. I knew I was mostly to blame as I got bored of people way too quickly. I have to admit I am shallow and looks were very important. My wish list was detailed and I was not going to settle or I would prefer to be on my own.  After much persuasion from my sister I agreed to meet with Bespoke and see if they could help me. The Consultant I met with was warm and understanding. She made it easy for me to talk about myself and what I wanted. She made me think about things I had never even taken into consideration.  The first few introductions were not what I was looking for at all. I understood I had to be patient but: I was not going to waste my time on someone who I just was not attracted to.  My matcher was patient with me and kept reassuring me she was really out there.  It was my 6th match and I was really not expecting much. She was a little older than I wanted and very short over the phone. We met at an outdoor Cafe and I was intrigued. Yes; she was beautiful; but she was smart; interesting and even more spontaneous than I was. A year later every day is still an adventure and I am truly enjoying my time with Kate. I am still afraid to admit it but I think she is the one. Thank you!